English Sensei Spirit: Omiai Speed Dating
The goal of the Omiai Speed Dating Game is to give the students a fun, real-world context in which to practice the target grammar, in this case “X is as ~ as Y,†many times in rapid succession, until they are able to do it naturally and fluidly. This game has the added bonus of provoking non-stop giggling, because it asks the students to search among their classmates for a spouse.
Students write three opinion sentences using the target grammar. In this case I asked the students to make value judgments about school and free time, American food and Japanese food, and love and money.
Then I explain to them what “speed-dating†is. Some students have probably heard of Omiai (Japanese arranged marriages), but few have probably heard of speed-dating. Once I explain that, I tell them we’re going to have a speed dating party in class today! (cue round one of squealing).
The girls stay seated while the boys move their chairs around to the front of the girls’ desks. I give them one minute per “date.†Make sure you keep it fast-paced, or their attention wanders. After one minute, I tell the boys to stand and move to the next empty chair (make sure the boys are clear on which direction to move: when we did this in my class there were mix-ups).
Students who share the same opinion on a point put an “O†in that boy or girl’s column. Students who disagree put an “X.†Explain to them beforehand that students who have matching values (all “Oâ€) are compatible and can get married! (cue round two of squealing).
If your class has an uneven number of girls and boys, you can either give someone a one-minute break, or double them up. For example, if there were two girls to one boy, the conversation would go like this:
G1: I think love is as important as money. How about you?
B: I think love is not as important as money. How about you?
G2: I think money is not as important as love.